hold purse strings

administer command conduct deal with dominate govern handle lead manage manipulate oversee regulate rule run supervise

administrate advise boss bully call direct discipline domineer guide head instruct overlook pilot predominate quarterback regiment steer subject subjugate superintend

be in saddle call the signals head up hold sway over hold the reins push buttons reign over run the show run things

comply consent follow mismanage neglect obey serve submit surrender yield

misguide mislead

abandon chance forsake give up jump in let go relinquish renounce resign risk rush