It helps one, or should help one, to realise both, and not to be too conceited about either.
You'll think I'm a conceited ass, but I'm not a bad sort, Eudora.
I mean you think I'm conceited and rich and don't know what trouble is.
Take him all in all, James was a bigot, a tyrant, a conceited fool.
You pet them and fawn on them, and naturally they get conceited.