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zir

PRONOUN
objective singular pronoun
Synonyms
WEAK
her him hir it me them ver xem you
PRONOUN
a possessive form used as an attributive adjective
Synonyms
STRONG
her hir his its my our their vis xyr your

Frequently Asked Questions

What is a synonym for zir?
Zir is a pronoun that can serve the same grammatical function as him or her (as in I gave zir the message) OR his or her (as in This is zir book), except that it’s gender-neutral. Zir is typically used by people who identify as nonbinary or genderqueer, meaning that their gender identify falls outside of the strict binary of only male or only female. For those who identify in one of these ways and who are deciding which pronouns to use, there are a lot of options. Some pronouns similar to zir include hir and xir (both of which can be used in ways equivalent to both nonbinary them and nonbinary their). However, it should be noted that these shouldn’t be considered synonyms of zir in the sense that they are interchangeable when referring to the same person—the pronouns the person has specified are the ones that should be used. Zir is often used as part of the ze/zir/zir set of pronouns, but it is sometimes also used as part of other, similar sets, such as zie/zir/zir. In the next section, we’ll break down some of the nonbinary pronoun sets that people use.
What can you use instead of the word zir?
First and foremost: if someone says they use zir as one of their pronouns, that’s what you should use when referring to them. Some people might use a mix of pronouns, such as zir and them/their, in which case you can use either one, or both at different times. There are a lot of different nonbinary pronouns, and it can seem overwhelming. To help, here is a chart of some (not all) nonbinary pronouns, along with the grammatical function of each one to help you understand how they’re used (and conjugated). You can plug each set into this sentence to see how each pronoun is used: [Column 1 subject form] told me to text [column 2 object form], but I don’t have [column 3 possessive form] number. 
subject form  (same grammatical function as he, she, and nonbinary they) object form  (same grammatical function as him, her, and nonbinary them) possessive adjective form (same grammatical function as his, her, and nonbinary their)
ze zir zir
zie zir zir
zhe zhim zhir
ze zan zan
xe xem xyr
xie xem xyr
xe xim xis
xe xir xir
xe hir hir
sie sier sier
ce cir cir
ve vir vir
ve vir vis
In many (but not all) cases, the possessive pronoun form (the one equivalent to theirs, as in That book is theirs) is simply formed by adding -s to the possessive adjective form (the one that’s equivalent to their): That book is zirs. Similarly, the reflexive form (the one equivalent to themself) is often formed by simply adding -self to the object form (the one that’s equivalent to them): zirself.
What kind of pronoun is zir?
When zir is equivalent to nonbinary them, it’s a personal pronoun. It is singular. As a pronoun, zir is used in the third person to refer to anyone other than the person doing the addressing (first person) or the ones being addressed (second person). Zir is also used as the possessive form of the personal pronoun ze (or zie). In this case, it’s often considered a possessive pronoun (like it’s equivalent their), but it functions as a possessive adjective (also called a possessive determiner). Regardless of its grammatical function, zir is what’s called a neopronoun. A neopronoun is a gender-neutral pronoun that has been recently coined to fill the lack of gender-neutral options in English (not all gender-neutral pronouns are neopronouns—singular they, them, and their have been used for a long time). For more, check out our guide to gender-neutral pronouns. And our guide to gender-neutral language.
How do you pronounce the pronoun zir?
Zir is typically pronounced zeer. Xyr is usually pronounced the same way.

Example Sentences

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They can include he/him/his, she/her/hers and they/them/their, along with neopronouns like zie, zim and zir.

From Seattle Times ● Jun. 23, 2023

Rosario-Hernandez spoke with The Washington Post about zir recent termination and what it may say about the debate over college diversity efforts in Florida and across the nation.

From Washington Post ● Mar. 10, 2023

"I'll look after the man for you, zir," said the woman; "for a matter of a shillin' 'e can sleep in the coffee-room, and I'll give 'im 'is breakfast too."

From Lord Tony's Wife An Adventure of the Scarlet Pimpernel by Emmuska Orczy, Baroness Orczy

Look here, zir; let’s have no more shilly-shallying.

From Nic Revel A White Slave's Adventures in Alligator Land by William H. C. Groome

"Well! a zovereign is tempting, zir," she said at last.

From Lord Tony's Wife An Adventure of the Scarlet Pimpernel by Emmuska Orczy, Baroness Orczy

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