the done thing

correctness decency decorum dignity modesty rectitude respectability

amenities breeding civilities courtesy delicacy etiquette mores niceties politeness politesse protocol punctilio refinement seemliness

accepted conduct good behavior good form rules of conduct social conventions social grace

impropriety indecency

bad manners crudeness impoliteness rudeness

immorality inappropriateness misbehavior misconduct unsuitableness wrong