churlish

grumpy ornery rude sullen uncivilized

base blunt brusque cantankerous cloddish clodhopping crabbed crude crusty curt cussed discourteous dour grouchy gruff harsh ill-tempered impolite loutish lowbred mean miserly morose oafish rustic snippy surly touchy ugly uncivil uncultured unmannerly unneighborly unpolished unsociable vulgar

happy nice polished refined sophisticated

gentle pleasant polite