lack of pride

shyness

abasement bashfulness demureness diffidence docility lowliness meekness mortification nonresistance obedience obsequiousness passiveness reserve resignation self-abasement self-abnegation servility sheepishness subjection submissiveness subservience timidity timorousness unobtrusiveness unpretentiousness

fawning

boldness confidence

arrogance assertiveness egoism pretentiousness pride self-importance